100 Heart Touching Sorry Messages For Ex Boyfriend 2023


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After a breakup, your ex boyfriend is definitely not expecting you to apologize. He is expecting and wants nothing more than to move on. But it doesn’t hurt to say sorry, because he will be happier this way. Saying sorry doesn’t change the fact that you still want him back. Saying sorry just means you are responsible enough to know that you have done something wrong. Timing on when to send an apology for your mistakes always matters when it comes to relationships. You don’t want to say sorry when he is still holding on to his feelings for you, but there’s a good chance he would feel better if he hears it from you.

Heart Touching Sorry Messages For Ex Boyfriend

  1. I miss you, I love you, and I always will. You know what I mean. This letter is too short to explain how much I have. I’m sorry if I hurt you and betrayed u trust. With all my heart I’m sorry.
  1. I know right now things are super tough and we are no longer together, but I am so sorry. I hope one day you will forgive me and come back to me. I love you with all my heart and always will.
  1. You will always be my ex-boyfriend. And I wish you find happiness and true love. But I know that you will get back together with your ex-girlfriend because you were made for each other. Try to do things to keep her happy because if she leaves, you’re going to be unhappy for the rest of your life.
  1. I’m so sorry. I’m so sorry that I wasn’t the best girlfriend to you. But I want you to know that I really loved you and I still do. And all the pain that we’ve been through. It’s not your fault, it’s mine. I was just a stupid selfish girl. But now as we move forward and as I try to get over this breakup, please know that I truly want your happiness. If there is no you, there is no me!
  1. I know you don’t believe me right now, but I will always support you. You’re the only one who has ever cared about me, and I’ll never do anything to hurt you. I want good things for you because you’re such a good person
  1. . You deserve someone who makes you happy. I pray to god that one day soon you will find your happiness. You will always be in my heart, and I hope someday that you will find it in yours to forgive me and love me
  1. My boyfriend who recently confessed his love to me and proposed has brought a lot of happiness in my life as well as brought such changes in me. With time, I feel he is drifting away from me and slowly distancing himself, every day and every moment. In our daily lives now, we don’t share a conversation or talk like before. I have told him that I love him and want us back as before. 
  1. I am sorry for all the times I made you cry and for every time I hurt you. You were always there to comfort me when I needed it most, please know that it’s still you that I need now. I don’t regret any of the choices you’ve made, as difficult as they were for me. It was always best for you and what made you happy. I’m proud of how far you’ve come and how strong you are. 
  1. I am sorry for the time I hurt you. I’m sorry for the time I made you cry. I’m sorry for the fact that my actions disrespected your feelings. I’m sorry for the distance that grew between us because of all the misunderstandings we had.
  1. Some people come into your life as blessings, and you don’t realize it until they are gone. Some people come into your life as lessons, and these are the ones that we need to pay attention to the most. Some people leave footprints on your heart, and you can never get rid of the traces.
  1. You made me so very happy. We had a lot of fun together and it was nice to have someone to talk to at night after a long day. You made me feel special and loved, even though I never told you that I loved you back. The relationship wouldn’t work out after we moved into a different state. Distance is the number one reason why things didn’t work out. Even though we both thought it was best to part ways, it was still an incredibly heartbreaking thing to go through. I miss you.
  1. I know you’re hurting, believe me. I miss the way you used to smile. The way you used to say my name. The way the stars would shine when we were together. The way you use to laugh. The way your eyes sparkled when you looked at me that night of our first date. The way we were so comfortable together. 
  1. I love you, my precious angel. I’m so sorry for everything, for the things I’ve done and the way I acted. It all was wrong. You have the right to be mad at me, but that’s not an excuse to do so. And now I realize it was all just a big mistake, one of many in my life. But this time, I’m here to correct it and ask you to forgive me and come back with me. To be mine forever.
  1. Just wanted to say that I wish things didn’t get so messed up between us. I miss talking to you and seeing your face on Skype. I wish you the best in life and I hope you find happiness again someday. You are an amazing person but I believe we just drifted apart over the time we were together. Hope you have a lovely Day!
  1. You have my heart and soul… Everything I do is because of you. I can’t explain the love I have for you. My heart aches with every moment we’re apart. You are my rainbow after the storm, my guiding light, and my rock when I need reassurance. We may not always see eye to eye, but know that in my heart we will always be together.
  1. I miss you, I think about you all the time. I love how we can talk and feel like we’ve known each other forever! I promise to always put you first and make you my world.
  1. I’ve always said that I’m nobody special, but you have made me feel like the most important person in the world to you. Thank you for everything that you’ve given me and everything that you’ve shown me. Because of you, I’ve learned to love myself, because without love I can’t give back what we share! Love you!
  1. I can never thank you enough. I wish I could take away all your pain and make you smile every day. Every time we are apart, no matter how long, my heart aches to see you again.
  1. I’m sorry we’re not together anymore, but I want you to know that I’ll be here for you when you make the right decision. If things don’t work out with her, I hope you know you can still find happiness in your life.
  1. I haven’t been the best boyfriend lately, I’ve been pretty selfish and haven’t been there for you. When we fight my only thought is ‘I’m ruining your life and I need to change. I know I’m not perfect, but I can email you ten reasons why I shouldn’t have treated you the way I did, but I don’t know how to talk to you anymore. Please take me back!
  1. I know you said it’s best we don’t talk anymore. And even though it hurts so much. I completely understand why you don’t want to be with me. But just know, at one point I loved you more than anything and would do anything for you. 
  1. I’m sorry I left so suddenly, but I had to cut out all the ties that bound me to you. I love you, but I love myself more. We can’t be together, not like this. But I want you to know that despite the pain and anger right now, I still love you.
  1. I want to tell you how much I appreciate you. I’m sorry for the way things turned out. I know it wasn’t easy for you, but please believe me when I say that it’s for the best. You deserve the absolute best, and I just couldn’t give it to you.
  1. Dearest ex, I’ve been very sorry for how I treated you during our breakup. At that time, every single moment was a test and a challenge to me. But I’m more sorry now not just because it’s too late but also because back then, I don’t realize how much you cared for me then. If I can turn back time, I will make sure to be there for you no matter what happened
  1. I miss you. I am so sorry for hurting you and breaking your heart. I will never forget all the good times we had together. Always Do Your Best!!!
  1. I’m sorry! I know you hate me and what I did to you was unforgivable. I wrote this letter to let you know that I truly am sorry for my actions and if there is anything I can do to ever get your forgiveness, just let me know. I don’t think it is possible to love someone as much as I love you. Every day since the day we met has been better than the last. My life would be nothing without you in it.
  1. You made a mistake, but that doesn’t mean you are a mistake. It doesn’t mean it’s all your fault. It doesn’t mean I don’t love you. It doesn’t mean I still don’t want to marry you. I am sorry for hurting you, and for not being supportive. I will try harder to make us work in the future. Please forgive me and remember this, I love you so much!
  1. I miss you. I can’t erase our memories or the times we’ve shared. I didn’t know that saying goodbye would be this hard. I fell in love with your smile, your eyes, your laugh, your touch, and everything else. I keep wishing that things could’ve been different and that we could have stayed together. But now all I have are pictures of you in my mind and heart, and that’s all I have left of you.
  1. I am so sorry, my love. SORRY! There are no excuses for what I did. I have no idea why I would do that to you. To be honest, I think it’s time we end this relationship. I am truly sorry and wish you the best in all that you do. Good luck.
  1. I’m sorry. I love you. I want to be with you every single day. Please take me back! I keep wishing that things could’ve been different and that we could have stayed together. But now all I have are pictures of you in my mind and heart, and that’s all I have left of you.
  1. I wish things were different. Anyone who knows us both can tell how much you mean to me. I’m sorry things ended as they did. I don’t regret a single moment because it taught me so much about myself and the world. 
  1. I am sorry for everything I have ever done to hurt you or make you feel the way you do. I understand that you are hurting and I don’t know how to fix it. I wish there was something I could do. But all I can say is this: I’m so SORRY. I never meant to make meaningful moments like your birthday or Christmas about me, but I get selfish sometimes. Nothing will change unless we both want it to.
  1. I am sorry. I am sorry that I took you for granted your love, I am sorry that I never seemed to appreciate you. Sorry for not realizing how wonderful you are, sorry that I had to learn the hard way. Now that we are apart, I realize what an idiot I was.
  1. I am sorry I have been acting like an immature child, I apologize entirely. I love you and I mean it. I don’t know what our future holds but all I want is for you to be happy and for us to stay close friends. Whatever may come, know that you will always have a friend and someone who cares about you if you ever need it.
  1. I’m sorry I didn’t show you more affection. I’m sorry that I am not always able to be there for you. And I am most sorry for saying hurtful things, just because it was easier than saying nothing at all. But really, I’m not sorry for the years we were together. Those were some of the best days of my life and I wouldn’t trade the memories for anything.
  1. I am so sorry for breaking your trust and hurting you. For the past few months, I have done nothing but think about how I can fix things between us. I miss you more than you will ever know. The thought of losing you again is unbearable. I promise to do whatever I can to make it up to you. But please say you will forgive me!
  1. My sweet darling, I know that you’re in a lot of pain. I’m sorry for what happened and if I could, I would have stopped it from happening. This is not how I wanted things to end between us. When we were together, I fell in love with you. My only wish is that you will find the happiness you deserve my love.
  1. I miss you, my love. I miss your smile, your laugh, and your sweet kisses. The days are long without you here, but I hope someday you will see how much you mean to me. I will always love you and regret what we got ourselves into. You deserve the whole world and so much more for how good of a person you are. Don’t hold back on things anymore. Show that you deserve it by putting yourself out there.
  1. Honey! You’re the best!! I’m sorry for what I said and did to you. You’re the one who’s always there for me, no matter what. I love you so much Chris and I’m so very sorry for what I’ve done to you. I’m hoping that we could still be together, at least for a little time, to make things right between us. I can’t live without you dear. I want us to be together forever till my last breath
  1. I’m so sorry. I know that my saying it a million times won’t make things right again, but I have to say it anyway. I love you and I never meant to hurt you. You are the best thing that ever happened to me and I am so sorry.
  1. You are always on my mind, Every day I miss you more and more, All I ever wanted was to be with you, To wake up every morning by your side, To see your beautiful eyes staring into mine, And give you the most passionate kiss at night. All I ever wanted was to hold your hand in mine and tell the world that you are all mine, And I could never let you go for anything in this world.
  1. I hope every day brings you happiness, love, fun, and adventure. I pray that the day never comes again when we are apart and that you will always know how much I love you.
  1. Wherever you are, whatever you’re doing, I’m thinking about you. You’re never very far from my thoughts. It’s been a while since we’ve been together and I miss you terribly. I hope one day soon things will change between us and we can be together again.
Heart Touching Sorry Messages For Ex Boyfriend
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  1. Knowing what I do now, I’m sorry for all the doubts that made me push you away. We have so much more to talk about, and so much more to understand about each other. I’m sorry for all the arguments we’ve had in the past. I know it’s going to be okay now. I know what love is now, and thanks to you, I found it within myself. Now that I know this, I don’t need to look for anyone else.
  1. I’m sorry I made you cry and feel like I was being too needy. I know that when you are hurting I am supposed to be strong. It’s my job to hold your hand and say it will be okay. I’m sorry I failed. I let you down in a time of need and that is a horrible feeling. When you were hurting, I should have eaten the pain with you and cried right along with you.
  1. Hey baby, I know it’s been a while since we talked. I have been just so caught up with everything and I’m not sure where to even begin…
  1. I know that for you to be here now there must have been a million things in your mind and a million questions racing through your head. The fact is, everything turned out ok because of you and me, and your determination not to give up made the difference! We are so lucky to have the opportunity.
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Sorry Messages For Ex Boyfriend

  1. It’s hard for me to say I’m sorry, but I am. I know you must feel so hurt right now. I was wrong and it was one of my most idiotic decisions ever. I hope you will forgive me and be able to love me again. You are important to me and I love you.
  1. I’m so sorry. There is no excuse for my actions. I was wrong and I will be a better boyfriend next time. I have to reevaluate my life and try to become the man I deserve. I later send you a card apologizing again in person.
  1. I am so sorry I hurt you and made you feel the way that I did, but please don’t forget to remember how happy we were together, how perfect we were, and how much I loved you. I am forever sorry!
  1. I hope you understand that you are always my favorite person and the only man I have ever loved. And I am sorry for all the pain I have caused you by letting our relationship hang on to something that was never going to happen no matter how much you wanted it to. You deserve better than me and I am truly sorry.
  1. I am so sorry I hurt you. I wish I could make it better. You didn’t deserve any of this and I am so sorry that this happened to you. If you need anything just let me know! Thanks so much for everything! You are amazing, wonderful, and beautiful! You are my everything, my heart, and my soul!
  1. I know I’ve said it before, but I’m so sorry for hurting you. I wish every day that I could go back in time and change everything. If I could, I would never have left you. 
  1. I know we broke up. I’m sorry. I was so stupid and blind to hurt you. Please come back! You mean so much to me and no one will ever compare to you. I miss you so much and don’t even know how to begin to handle it.
  1. I’m sorry that I’ve caused you so much pain and that the things I’ve done have hurt you. I can’t take any of those things back, and if I could, I would be a better friend. You don’t deserve to be ignored, lied to, or belittled by me.
  1. I wish I could rewind time, so I could have another chance to prove that we belong together. Every time I think about you, I can’t help but smile. Even though it didn’t work out; you’ll always be on my mind. It was the best 3 years of my life, and if you ever need a friend/listener/lover again, I will always be there for you.
  1. I am sorry for the times I’ve yelled, the times I didn’t listen and ignorantly brushed you off. I am sorry for all the times I’ve been a jerk and put you on the back burner while exploring new options. I love you, and only want to grow old with you.
  1. I’m sorry. I was wrong. You deserve to have a woman who thinks of you first, and who wants to make the relationship work. I know how lucky I am to have that woman in my life and I promise to always put you first in mine. I will listen more, talk less and appreciate what we have together.
  1. I can’t say these words enough…I’m sorry. And I’ll always be sorry. I don’t know what I could have done differently, but if there is one thing that I regret it’s letting you slip away. You were a good person and a good boyfriend. Maybe we weren’t right for each other, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t miss you. Wish you all the luck in the world.
  1. I’ll never forgive myself for being a part of the cause of your pain. I hate to see you cry. I would move heaven and earth to wipe those tears away and make you worldwide happy. I’m sorry that things aren’t always perfect but I hope this letter helped a little. I love you more than you know, and I want nothing but happiness for you.
  1. I know how you feel. I’ve been there before. Just cry it out, you’ll feel better tomorrow. I’m sorry things didn’t work out for us and I wish it could be different. The world is a cold and lonely place without you in it. I love you, please remember that!
  1. I just wanted to try and reach out to you. I know we both said some things we regret. I don’t know what happened. I wanted us to become a stronger couple from it. I am sorry for anything I did wrong. Please forgive me and give me another chance!
  1. I miss you. I miss your smile, your eyes, and just the way you look at me. The time we spent together was perfect, and I’ll never forget it. I would do anything to go back and relive it all again. I wish that you were still here in my arms.
  1. I miss you so much and I know I still love you. I just want to say that if you ever need someone to talk to, or to spend some time with, please reach out! You are always in my heart.
  1. I wish I could take back everything that hurt you. I’m not perfect and I will surely make mistakes again and again in the future but know that every day I am working hard to be a better person. If there’s anything you ever need let me know. I love you so much.
  1. I miss talking to you, I miss seeing your smile, I miss hearing your laugh, I miss the way it made me weak inside. I miss seeing you around campus but at the same time, I’m glad I don’t cause it hurts so much but I know deep down that we will never get back together and this hurts more than anything.
  1. You’re the best boyfriend ever. Since I met you, I don’t feel that lonely anymore. You gave me a chance in your life and trust me with your whole heart. I love you beyond words and know that my heart is yours forever.
  1. I’m sorry I was such an ass sometimes. I’m sorry I didn’t know how to make you happy. And I’m sorry for taking you for granted. You’ll always be the first love and first everything for me, and I’m sorry that you fell out of love with me, but mostly I’m sorry for the times when I wasn’t a nice person. If there’s anything that could make it better, please tell me.
  1. I know that I broke your heart, and I am so sorry. I was blinded by the first potential relationship in a very long time, and now I can’t help but wonder what would have happened if it had been you. My love for you runs deep, and maybe one day we can be more than just friends. I miss you more than you could ever imagine!
  1. You are an amazing guy and I know we can work things out. I have loved you for so long and I just want to be with you and only you. I never wanted to give up on us, but apparently, you did and I’m stuck having to do it. I love you, please call me back so we can talk about everything.
  1. I miss you so much. Every day without you feels like a year, but I know we needed to go our separate ways for now. I still want you to be my best friend and wish I could hold you again.
  1. I’m sorry for not paying more attention to you. I thought I could handle the distance, but it was really hard. I miss you so much and I can’t wait until we’re together again.
  1. I just wanted to say I’m sorry. There are so many things that I have said that I have regretted. That is why I wanted to speak with you one last time. I don’t want to see you or talk to you but I truly am sorry.
  1. You were a huge part of my life, and I’ll never forget you or the times we shared. I wish you well on your journey through life.
  1. I may not be able to say it in person, so I’m saying it here: I’m sorry. I was so stupid. The only reason that I tried to use you is because of who you are and everything we’ve been through together. I know that’s no excuse, but I can’t help myself. You’re the only guy in the world whom I never expect anything from and you don’t ask for anything. Every time something great happens to me, (when people ask how my
  1. I’m sorry I’ve forgotten our anniversary. I can’t find a single day that I’d rather spend with you than this one. I love you so much, not a day goes by that I don’t think about how lucky I am to have you in my life
  1. I miss you, I miss the way we used to be. I wish things could go back to the way they were before. Sometimes I think that we can work it out, but I know if I’m being honest with myself and talking to my friends they say “maybe it is best this way.” 
  1. I know I failed you. I know I wasn’t good enough for you. But now that I’m doing it on my own, every day I look in the mirror and I see a wretched version of myself. I miss everything about you and our time together.
  1. I miss you. I miss you SO much it hurts. We were perfect together, but apparently, that’s not enough… it never is…
  1. I’m sorry I can’t be the “one” that makes you happy. But I’m glad you found her. It hurts more every day that we’re not together and I am not just saying that because you are reading this. Here’s hoping, somewhere deep in our hearts…we haven’t forgotten what was once our love for each other.
  1. I am so sorry for making you feel that I have stopped seeing you. Please come back, I will never treat you badly again. Let us start fresh together as friends. I apologize for being an idiot.
  1. Dear, I am so sorry I was not a better girlfriend to you. I hope you know that with each passing day I think and I dream of how good we had it and how much I miss you and our love for each other. My heart breaks because the relationship has lost its fire. I wish we could start again and go from there.
  1. I’m sorry for ever hurting you, hitting you, and saying awful things out of anger. I’ve never loved anyone as I loved you. I miss you oh so much. I am so sorry I took you for granted and that I hurt you because of it. I hope one day we can both forgive ourselves, trust one another and love each other again the way we did when we first met.
  1. I miss you and I love you. I miss us together. You are the one that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and you were everything that I needed. There is no other person on this earth that could make me happier than you.
  1. I know I’ve been a terrible person to you, but I’m sorry…I miss you so much and wish things were different. Some days it hurts to breathe knowing I broke your heart. Not being with you makes me feel empty and alone, but the pain is worth it. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me when I eventually find my way back.
  1. The day we broke up I realized that somewhere along the way I’d fallen in love with you. I wanted more than anything to be with you but was scared at the same time of the commitment that comes with a relationship like ours. 
  1. You’re one of my best friends and my lover and I never want that to change. I’m sorry for not showing it more often enough, I was stupid and I thought you would always wait. Sometimes I feel very foolish.
  1. I have no idea what I did wrong. Perhaps it was my fault for letting a relationship that meant so much to me go. I wish there were words to explain why I hurt you as much as I did, but there aren’t any. So, I can only say that I’m sorry and that I hope you found the love you deserved.
  1. I’ve known you for a long time, and I’ve loved you almost every minute. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about you or wonder if you’re happy, or wonder what it would have been like to be with you and share the rest of my days with you.
  1. I am sorry I hurt you. I’m sorry for giving up on us. I’m sorry for not being the person you wanted me to be. . Each passing year without you is harder than the last and fills my heart with even more pain. The worst part about it is convincing myself not to pick up the phone that still has your name in my contacts
  1. I remember the day that I fell in love with you fourteen years ago. I was filled with joy and happiness, a feeling I have felt every day since then. Now all I’m left with is a broken heart and empty arms. It’s hard thinking about waking up tomorrow without you. We had something so special, and now it’s gone…
  1. I know that it’s hard to let go. I know that it can hurt. But despite how hard it gets there are things you need to remember. I think we should still grow old together. I’m not going anywhere. We were good when I thought the world was ending, but because we have each other we will be just fine. With every passing year, I find a deeper love for you.
  1. I remember the first time I saw you. It was gorgeous out, the sun was shining and there you were standing by your car with a smile on your face. I couldn’t stop looking at you, I even drove into another lane just to get a better look. Your eyes drew me in and from that day forward I haven’t been able to put you out of my mind. You have had such a massive impact on my life and have become such an amazing part of it. 
  1. Saying I’m sorry never comes easy. I feel ashamed for hurting you, for not supporting you, and for not being the best girlfriend I could’ve been. I want to let you know that although we’re no longer together…I still care deeply about your well-being and want nothing but happiness for you. There were good times too and they were wonderful! Don’t forget those!
  1. I was afraid to lose you, but now I know it’s for the best. I’m sorry that I hurt you and I hope that you heal quickly. Know that I will always love you, no matter what.
  1. I don’t know if you will ever get this, I don’t. But I need to tell you that I’m sorry and I am truly a better man because of our relationship. I hope one day you will forgive me and take the time to read this message. I love you
  1. I am sorry that we fought so much and that I was not always there for you. I just want you to know that I did love you with all my heart, and the only thing I wish that changed is that it lasted longer. It is hard to see the love of your life go, but I do hope one day you will find someone you really love who really loves you back just as much.
  1. I didn’t intend for things to end this way. I want you to know how much I will miss you and our relationship. From the moment I met you, I knew that you were a great guy. I know how painful it is to be rejected and left behind. In time you will find someone who appreciates what a wonderful person you are. It’s one of my biggest regrets in life that I couldn’t make things work out between us because you deserve so much happiness.
  1. I don’t know what is going on between us. I just wish you’d talk to me, tell me what you’re feeling. Maybe then we can fix this. People say that time heals all wounds, maybe this is true and we will be back to the way we were before and fall in love again. I have many wonderful memories of us together. And I am thankful for all the times you were there for me to listen when I needed it or cheer me up when I was sad or
  1. I miss you. I miss the days when we could just pick up the phone and talk about anything. I miss sitting in my room on the computer, with you sitting across from me, laughing at one of those crazy pictures you took. I miss your smile, your laugh, and those little moments that made life so perfect. You are amazing and I am sorry that I hurt you. You will always be my best friend and nothing can change that.

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